List 5 things you’re grateful for today.

Hello Dazzle! Thanks for coming and hanging out with me today, I’m glad that you are here. Today I want to invite you to spend some time thinking about the things that you are grateful for and the reasons that you are grateful for them. It is very easy to focus on the negative things in the world and get lost to them. They can swallow us whole. But there are still good things in this world. Regardless of how small those things are, list them. Sing their praises. Then, come back to that list when you are struggling. These things are points of emotional and spiritual power.

I am grateful

  • For my husband who has always accepted me just the way that I am.
  • For my daughter who has always been able to make me laugh.
  • For videogames that have been a way for me to escape from my thoughts when they are too much.
  • For the small pleasures in life such as the first sip of a hot cup of coffee, the sun rise and the feel of a fuzzy blanket against my face. These things offer me comfort when I feel lost.
  • For the crafting supplies that have enabled me to be a creative person which has been healing.

These things that we are grateful for are things that we can come back to when we are having a difficult time. Are there people on your list? Perhaps they are people that you should be reaching out to when you find yourself struggling. Are there activities on your list? Excellent! Then things are things that you can do when you are struggling. Often times, we write down our lists of gratitude and then we tuck them away, giving them no further thought. Instead, I want you to really think about your list of gratitude. What on that list can help lift you up when you feel like you are falling down?

Well, that’s about it for my rambling today. Thanks for coming and spending some time with me. If you like what you read, click on that like button. It really does help! Until we talk again, you take care of yourselves!

Embracing the Spirit of Kindness

Hello Dazzle! Thanks for coming and hanging out with me today, I’m glad that you are here. Today I want to talk about the idea of embracing the spirit of kindness. It is a personal philosophy that I live by that I feel has made my life a lot better. When I was an adolescent, I made the decision that I wasn’t going to be the person that I was becoming. I decided that I was going to be someone better then I was. That was my first step towards this philosophy.

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One Word: Chaos

What is one word that describes you?

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Hello Dazzle! Thanks for coming and hanging out with me today, I’m glad that you are here. Today I want to explain why I think that CHAOS is the word I would pick for this, assuming that I could only pick just one word. First, when I think of this word I am thinking of how this word is defined by physics: “behavior so unpredictable as to appear random, owing to great sensitivity to small changes in conditions.”

Once someone gets to know me, they tend to realize that my behavior, just like everyone else’s, isn’t random nor unpredictable. But for those people first meeting me, they often complain that I am unpredictable. This is because I frequently respond to things in a way that people generally don’t so I am not meeting their general expectations. It is also because there are numerous factors that goes into how I respond to a situation which means that I will often respond differently to the same stimuli given different context.

This is actually the case for all humans. We are not static things. We are dynamic and every changing. We are constantly being effected by our environment. This causes us to constantly change the way that we engage with the environment. I think that this sensitivity to small change is often seen as a negative thing so we try to hide it. But it is just the nature of being an organic thing. We cannot separate ourselves from the environment we are an extension of it.

So, go out there and embrace the chaos!

Well, that’s about it for my rambling today. Thanks for coming and spending some time with me. If you like what you read, click on that like button. It really does help! Until we talk again, you take care of yourselves!